Starting a family does not only mean having a fully furnished home, a garden, a garage, a car and all the material things that we can possess as a couple. Starting a family first and foremost requires having children whom you can share your joys with as a couple and as parents. In today's time however, couples are now so preoccupied with work and building their finances that they often neglect the idea of having their own children while still early. For the others, they considered building a family as a hindrance to doing what they love to do. They have this thinking that couple can enjoy more their freedom when they don't have a baby at home to look after. However, time will come that you will get bored going out and enjoying each other, you will surely long for a kid who could inspire your day.
Trying to conceive is an opportunity for couple to be intimate however, some couple becomes too preoccupied with the thought of getting pregnant that they become more and more stressed in trying to conceive, especially those who took several months of trying to conceive. When getting pregnant, it doesn’t mean your relationship will be compromised. Pregnancytips.org says that a couple can still spice up their relationship even though they’re trying to conceive. When you think your relationship is becoming more and more affected because of your TTC journey, don’t waste time, go ahead and schedule a preconception trip with your partner or go out and have a date, do the things you both love and enjoy. Your relationship doesn’t need to be compromised because you’re trying to conceive.
While building a family needs to be properly planned, it doesn't need to go to the extent that we are already putting pressures to ourselves. Trying to conceive in the most natural way and at the same time enjoying each other's company can do wonders for a more stable and happy relationship.